The paradox of the thunderbolt

When we say that two people fell in love, it is called thunderbolt or some other feelings for others.

In this situation, we can know by reason of the difficulties that binds to love, the emotion of the soul or friendship, the union of two people linked by an equal love and respect.

Cloe, mother of two and PACS for 6 years, says she never knows realized what was was love at first sight although she loves her partner, she could not feel this effect Unlike her friends who they may have seen a change in their emotions etc … This young mother of 26, think it’s due to her relationship began with a friendship, she explains: “Bertrand and I , have met by chance, we had a drink, we do have knowledge, then this good chat welded us on a very solid friendship was over time, I would not think that one day we will have been be together, I considered him a brother, a best friend, what I felt was really friendly. ”

Everyone has his theory of thought, as in the case of Cloe, who thinks the declic could not do and yet she experiences today of love. How she explains it: “Although we were on a friendship basis, the feeling of love was there but not that different than the stars we see in the eyes or a heart pounding, but a sentiment that is summed to achieve the good of another, to be kind, to avoid their suffering. After time, where pure emotional passion and friendly advanced as it should be, that’s where my feelings were played me, that is this awareness that I must have with a person who s ‘after me, was present every day in my life, I had to challenge myself and leave her open my heart, that’s when I discovered the simple and beautiful love, that of my love in me simply. “

The thunderbolt ,to friendship for Yvana and love for Tom

Yvanna, how long do you know Tom?

“I know for some time, it was known to a funfair, as he holds a riding school with his father, he had his place for the third time, but for me it was the first time I see, other years his father worked alone. ”

Tom And you, how was the first time you saw Yvanna?

“To be honest, beautiful, beautiful face, very kind and sociable.Le kind of girl who interests me. ”

Yvanna, when you saw Tom what you saw in him now?

“I saw his smile and the way he so kindly advise on the aspect of fear of a ride to people. But what caught my intention was to imagine the feeling inside, so not really him. ”

So it was not plugged in you more than her, it was the ride and nothing else?

“Of course, as I told myself I had to relax a little after the horrible hours revising for exams, I did not have in mind to charm or else in the party. ”

Tom, did you try an approach with Yvanna later after fairground ride she made?

“Yes, I will not hide it, when I saw him approach the counter, I bet map gentleman, I have given two tickets for me because she had typed in eye and thank me after and ending these tours we exchanged phone numbers. ”

What has happened afterwards?

“Later, we, we are contacted, reviewed after its examens.Avec time, we have come to know us, I realized that I felt love but did not feel that friendship to me . “

Love and its opposite, the story of Angie

Angie, 21, a student in BTS MUC, 1st year, tells us his crazy adventure for a professional project.
“When the students of the second year of BTS, came to share with us the study, internship process, each of the first years were directed to the person chosen in groups or alone, to ask questions , me it was him I had noticed at the beginning and it was with him that I wanted spoken. So, I go to him, he made me understand that it was the hubbub of the sudden, we went out and talked to the small wall. It was there just the two, well it’s true that we have not attacked the direct subject of the famous steps etc, but a much more interesting subject, one of our presentations, in all its physical and moral aspect, we forgot professional theme to tell you, it was really too funny.
I think I even hit him in the eye as it is by sharing our contact information such as telephone numbers and facebook. Us, we are given appointments thereafter, as today the cinema where he had me invité.I can tell he was different from high school days that this is a handsome boy, I would almost say attractive date là.It’s whereas during the session where we laughed and ate the popcorn salted butter that the magic of cinema began turned for me my film, the famous and long kiss, dream! But taking great advantage of this moment of love at first sight, might appear a message on his phone and now everything was broken, this “I love you, baby evening”, he believed that I had not seen in the speed of action, but I understood that he had used me and that I was wrong about him and that feeling that did was ephemeral. “

The love of lightning with Severine

“It is said that love is an emotion of the soul caused by the movement of minds. “This is the interview with Severine, a young woman of 23 who explains all his.

Nice to you meet Severine, to begin could you briefly summarized your love life.

“Already thank you for contact for this interview, already the fact that the theme of love at first sight is very interesting, I did not hesitate to answer the call, for that I’ll tell you my love life.

To start at the base, I was a fairly reserved and heart stories began like most teenage girls in majority. In high school, then to graduate school, I had experienced a few “boyfriends”. Never a great relationship but that is all those little details that facts I have been a couple. ”

Well, earlier today we speak of true love, would you be conquered?

“Personally, I say yes and confirms that true love really exists. ”

And do you believe that love at first sight was something to do there?

(All with a smile and twinkling eyes), “Having never known her before, I would say honestly that yes the thunderbolt was the main key to my story. ”

This brings us to a very interesting topic as said at the beginning, then tell me Severine, the thunderbolt has been waiting for you, we want to know what have been the trigger elements of this phenomenon.

“Firstly, it is a unique feeling to which I think the heart to have something, as we say so:” The heart has its reasons which reason knows nothing. “I felt the first moment when our eyes met, he was in front of me at a party in night clubs, I continued to dance while remaining secure in his eyes after a few steps towards me, he began to move with me to steal this highly anticipated kiss. I realized at one point that I was his sights, he saw only me. And that’s after enjoying moments of laughter, glued tight, intense glances all evening I told myself that I was thunderstruck. ”

What a great lightning history, its been a balm to the heart and a desire to know sa.And then, have you been with him afterwards?

“Frankly how not to continue a story like mine, of course, and to tell you right now, we are a couple and we, we like a lot. ”

Incredible story as we come to the end of our interview, what advice can you give to readers.

“In short, faith and patience never give up and that is without waiting for all the happiness suddenly happen and we will dream more, up to this reality. “

Reliving to feel like thunderbolt

But where did it go this crazy desire that we have prevailed in this first look at the magical moments of the game in the relationship, it is possible to relive those moments a few ideas.

To break the daily, nothing like that again projets.It’s a great way to spend time together and to find her mood within the couple.

To go for alternative evening, the goal is to have fun and enjoy these moments with friends.

There are many possibilities to you to find the right compromise and will.

Remind him that you are a woman in itself and that even if the lightning turned out to be physical and moral beauty, always rekindle this flame.

Remember your first time, that spark that makes what you are today.It’s a good way to trace the path fact and remind you why you love.

We love and we see day turn but we often forget that nothing is gained, do not forget the sweet words.

Each has its own personality and choice, the relationship is to be achieved, no matter by what means it is a content liè a pure concept of reason.

Love at first sight by remote ,is this possible?

“Although I believe in love, I believe that love at first sight, is an interesting topic, because I know that everyone can -be love differently by different means of communication and the question asked whether it is remotely possible, I want to believe it, so science of wealth in this world, so why not “tell myself Clemence.

Distance love, hang unfinished or engraved lightning?

“Distance is a relationship that is testing an opposition between the virtual, the consciousness of self .The thunderbolt may be a reality for some, only by reason, but by the heart. Pure passion, courage and desire leads us to say that by some, its still an unfinished feeling passage that was an emotion which the subject remains on the reflection.

“When we saw for the first time through the webcam knowledge was an emotional reality, a determination to stay in touch but in time, his was not specific in the experience of the love. ”

While others: “This has been a passion and not a natural habit, it was a desire but also the conservation of this. ”

Also referred to as a lightning strike selfless feeling and love of others. This is a provision which does not leave indifferent.

I had a crush

This is the debate that we now ask in a small survey in the company of Nelly, 30, administrative secretary.

So Nelly, in a few words, describe your love life at the moment?

“So in a nutshell, I would say not bad, I advance slowly in my relationship enjoying every moment of these happy moments with my companion. ”

Tell me something, how was your first meeting.

“It was a Saturday, as a day when I’m not working, I hesitated to ask me to stay home watching TV watching a good movie on demand or why not go into town, make a small turn to take the air.I am finally decided to the city.To arrive there, I headed to my favorite store, this is where I like to splurge on clothes, I go, I some shopping and then go away, it’s at that moment that I’m about to pass the threshold of the door, a warm hand grabbed my wrist, I turn around and see it, in withering look, her pretty blue eyes … “(a small smile on his lips, his eyes fixed on the ground, we will resume with another question)

I feel that was was a magical moment for you if can I say, tell us later.

(After a mysterious little laugh, she resumes). “After this exchange in his eyes, he smiled and told me that I had forgotten my receipt, I smiled sheepishly, saying thank you and goodbye .But you know by leaving I had a kind of pinching in heart, it was very strange, it was at that moment when I got home that my instinct was merged by the simple reason that behind the ticket that I had not paid attention attracted me to him for the look is folded in four and there in the brochure I saw a tracking phone number “Eric”. ”

So you victim of lightning strike so I can afford?

“Yes, exactly, I was a victim of its gaze, his person, I knew it was well produced something at this point, the evidence, I followed my instinct for the city while I was hesitant, suddenly brought me back to his encounter and live this, ie the visual communication, written and real thereafter. “